This column is penned by Gavin Crawford, host of the CBC podcast Let’s Not Be Kidding. In 2018, his mother experienced memory loss, which led to a significant change in her behavior. Previously an avid shopper, she had a knack for browsing without making purchases. Crawford vividly recalls an incident at King of Prussia Mall, where a gas leak prompted an evacuation, but his mother remained unfazed, opting to stay and try on more outfits.
As time passed, her disinterest in shopping became more apparent, signaling a shift in her condition. During a Christmas visit to Toronto, Crawford noticed his mother’s diminishing enthusiasm for shopping trips, a stark departure from their usual routine. Despite efforts to engage her in shopping, her lack of interest became increasingly evident, serving as an early indicator of her diagnosis.
Throughout the visit, Crawford observed his mother’s repetitive questioning and fading memory, contrasting with moments of childlike wonder at the sight of a decorated Christmas tree in their home. Despite the challenges posed by her Alzheimer’s, witnessing her joy and amazement at the tree brought a mix of distress, humor, and warmth to their interactions. Reflecting on these memories, Crawford cherishes the bittersweet moments shared with his mother, finding solace in the enduring impact of those simple, yet meaningful experiences.