Known for her candid opinions on Loose Women, she now serves as Britain’s most direct agony aunt, offering guidance on sex, relationships, and life challenges.
Dear Coleen
Seeking assistance with a personal dilemma, a loyal follower seeks advice on a sensitive matter.
Confiding in Coleen, she reveals her situation as a closeted lesbian in a 23-year marriage with her best friend, her husband, with whom she has raised a family of four children and two grandchildren.
Struggling with the burden of living a false identity, she grapples with the daunting task of coming clean to her husband about her true self.
Her fear of losing her husband’s friendship looms large as she contemplates the repercussions of revealing her authentic feelings, despite their strong bond as friends and co-parents.
While acknowledging the complexity of her predicament, she seeks guidance on navigating this challenging juncture in her life.
Coleen’s Advice
Addressing the delicate nature of the situation, Coleen emphasizes the importance of honesty and reassurance in her forthcoming conversation with her husband.
Drawing on examples of others in similar circumstances, she suggests seeking support from online resources and local groups to navigate the coming out process to her partner and family.
Encouraging open communication and mutual understanding, Coleen advises giving space for emotional reactions and considering joint counseling to establish a new dynamic in their relationship based on honesty and respect.
While acknowledging the challenges ahead, she offers support and well wishes for a successful resolution and a fulfilling path forward.
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